OK, so you either need to:
1) get him addicted too
or
2) get him really, really drunk
so he says
"Oh sure, babe" instead!!!
haha
I think #1 is my best bet, since he's not a big drinker.
He does come on rides with me almost once a week and we've already figured out that he has more fun with a group of people, than just the two of us. That way, others can help me convince him how much fun we are having.
I do baby him a little, so he has decent experiences.... make sure he has flavored water, his chain is clean and lubed, and research the trail ahead of time, etc Trying to avoid those stories you hear sometimes, "My first time skiing, my spouse took me to the top of a double black diamond and told me to just do it!"
heheh
He's been having trouble with his front derailer. We get it adjusted and it's out of wack again after one ride and starts rubbing. I think it might be bent a little. So, that's a point of frustration on almost every ride. There is always some point in the ride where he says, "My bike is a piece of crap!" So, maybe I should just have the derailer upgraded for him?
I've been holding off on this, because he is very hard on his front derailer and doesn't plan ahead for downshifting on steeps. He often tries to jam it from mid ring to small ring in the midst of a steep climb while keeping full pressure on the pedals and still has the rear derailer in 5. I've coached him on shifting technique for steeps (and so have other riders), but he still feels that the front derailer should be able to handle this.
[PS. Thanks for listening to me rant!]
So, in addition to replacing his front derailer, you have any suggestions on how to get him addicted? Or, at least, help him enjoy it consistently?
Truth is, it would be worth the effort even if he doesn't raise my new-bike-budget.