Point taken Perma-grin. I agree if she only wants to ski the greens, and that's all she's game for, more power to her. At least she's out there with her guy, and if she's just in the lodge having a few laughs and beverages, good for her too. To each their own.
His attitude that fit is not an issue, =only= looks and comfort is, as even if you are going to just mellow out and snow bunny it, safety is an issue, and a poorly fitting boot isn't going to help her performance or safety IMHO, even if it's just going down the green groomers.
I understand his general gist, and that to keep her out there, he wants to keep her comfy, but fit should still be an issue, no matter how much or little, how aggressively or not one skis, and I think his attitude is scary...very scary...