@MissySki
We are a stone's throw from 95, but north of 495, so it rarely makes sense for us to drive south and loop all the way around. 95 traffic seems like it doesn't let up until around 7...We usually try to leave right after school lets out (the bell rings at 2:55, I try to be on the road by 3:05!) and still hit some traffic. If I get a pizza delivered to my house before we leave, I can make it to Maine and reheat it by the time the kids almost die of hunger ;)
I think if we waited long enough for the traffic to die down significantly, we wouldn't be getting in until 10-11 pm. And that's just late for the kids, especially when I'm asking them to be getting up for an 8 am start.
I am the driver in the family and I don't mind the drive! It's my husband that needs convincing
I'm trying to separate the emotion out of it, which is hard for me. SR feels like home to me, but not to my husband, so he wants to look around, which is reasonable too.