I'm not sure I'm seeing the whole field of play here. If I recall from previous threads,
@Skivt2 , you live in Connecticut and have a rental in Vermont that you frequent mostly for skiing. And you would like to eventually move to Vermont in a few years, but worry that it may not be affordable because of the high demand for real estate in Vermont right now?
I understand that concern. Housing is tight and crazy expensive statewide, and it's hard to make long-term plans not knowing what the market will be like when you're ready to move. That uncertainty must be very frustrating, especially given how quickly the market changed all of a sudden.
In a spirit of encouragement, I would say that your situation seems fortunate in many ways. You currently have a full-time rental in Vermont that you can afford while also maintaining a home in CT. You'll enjoy your ski season at Killington as always. And you're not looking to purchase right now, so when you're ready to look at real estate in VT it could be a very different market. You seem to have a stable housing situation at your primary residence in CT, and that's something a lot of people don't have. At least right now any instability is in the vacation housing.
It's ok to be frustrated that the long-term plans that mean so much to you and that you've worked hard for are changing and maybe in some jeopardy. That's perfectly understandable.
But the people who bought property in Vermont (or Maine, or New Hampshire) in the past year and a half have as much right to be here as you do. You don't know everyone's reasons and motives, and it's not necessary to speculate. You can acknowledge that it sucks that things aren't working out the way you'd hoped without denigrating other people. (I'm a historian of modern Europe, so forgive me if I have a severe allergic reaction when I hear people being separated into us and them, described as cultural polluters, and/or divided into people who are worthy of living in a place and people who aren't). There's enough unkindness in the world right now. Let us support you in your frustration and celebrate you when things work out for you, as we all hope they will. None of that requires ascribing unkind motives to others.