Thanks to skigirl for "downhill hand down"
When I posted my leaning into the hill question, skigirl sent me this advice:
"You need to put your down hill hand down. Drop it down to your knee. This is the best way to contol your speed. You need to lean away from the hill not into the hill. Lean outside of the turn.
I have been a ski instructor for 26 years."
Well, I went skiing the first time on my new Roxy Joyriders (I had demoed them, but these were fresh out of the package), and I practiced technique on a steeper green at a slow speed to emphasize technique. Thinking about leaning outside of the turn didn't seem to help me much, and I wasn't skiing very smoothly. Then I moved to a medium blue run (hey, InTheClouds, I was on Beaver), and once again, I wasn't skiing very smoothly. Then, suddenly, when I was on a steeper blue with a weird camber (Powderhorn at Sierra at Tahoe), I remembered skigirl's other advice: Downhill hand down!
So I dropped my downhill hand, and it WORKED!!! It moved my weight more squarely on the downhill ski, it put my pole where it needed to be to initiate the next turn, and I didn't feel like my uphill ski leg was straining. It became my mantra today: Downhill hand down! Downhill hand down! (and then, when things sped up): Downhill down! Downhill down!
I also wanted to thank whoever it was who wrote what we're supposed to DO with the pole hand once it has... poled: push it down over the ski. That way the pole doesn't get caught behind me. (This has happened many times. Ouch.) I read about that in the "Tackling the Steeps" thread.
I know what you guys mean about the hip thing.... I'll keeping working on it. Things are getting slushy in California....