mollmeister
Angel Diva
For the first time in maybe 13-14 years, I am pretty unmotivated for general fitness and training. :(
A few factors, most of them kid-related:
Most important, my in-gym and repetitive training has always been in training for something mountain-focused, namely skiing or snowshoeing or climbing or hiking. I am very outdoorsy and love to push myself in the mountains, so when I hit the gym or did lots of plyos, it was always with the goal of bettering my skiing or pushing the hiking (we used to do a lot of very long distance day and overnight hikes in the summer) or climbing to the next level.
Well, now we have two little kids, one and four. This ski season is ending, and although we did OK getting out there, I am now understanding the great monetary cost of getting kids cared for and taught. (My mom is no longer so willing to be the designated kid watcher, now that there are two-- a moody 4yo and an into-everything 1yo.) I am seeing that the logistics and the sheer volume of STUFF is so much greater. And I am wondering how long we're going to be able to keep this pace up if we don't move to a mountain town. And it's not even the 20 or 30 or 35 day pace of the *old days.* Getting what will probably turn out to be 16 or 17 days in this season has taken an almost Herculean effort on my part.
As for hiking, well, let's just say that carrying a wiggly, 35lb 4yo who wants to walk on his own every 20mins makes getting up CO-size peaks a WHOLE lot more challenging. And obviously I can't carry two of them, so no more hiking without DH on weekdays.
We don't climb anymore.
So what do I do to stay motivated? Slogging away at the elliptical trainer in the basement and messing with our small weight rack is getting old. Plus, it's not challenging, and certainly isn't helping to melt away the last 5lbs of baby. Also, the 4yo won't stay in his room at *rest time* anymore, and spends most of my workouts saying, "Mommy, where's my truck?" "MOMMY!! I hurt my toe!" "Mommy, I am tired, can I have my snack?" Etc. :mad:
The gym that we belong to is about 20min away, and although I get blessed quiet on the workout circuit, it's sometimes a huge hassle and more motivation than I can muster to get two kids and coats and diaper bag and cups into the car and out the door in time to slip into the *slow* window at childcare. Plus, the 1yo isn't so sure how he feels about the place, so I could drive all the way there to be faced with big alligator tears. :(
Pushing the giant double stroller around the neighborhood? Meh. Our neighborhood is flat. Hardly an epic workout. I like working out hard. . . and have to, if I want to bring my fitness back up to par.
Pushing the giant stroller in the hills. . . sounds good, a couple days a week. . . except then I have to hope for no wind and bundle everyone up and drive 20min to Boulder.
I don't know. I have to find something to get me excited again. Any ideas? Any good tips for being fit and still being a good mommy? Help! The current situation is kind of bumming me out!
:(
A few factors, most of them kid-related:
Most important, my in-gym and repetitive training has always been in training for something mountain-focused, namely skiing or snowshoeing or climbing or hiking. I am very outdoorsy and love to push myself in the mountains, so when I hit the gym or did lots of plyos, it was always with the goal of bettering my skiing or pushing the hiking (we used to do a lot of very long distance day and overnight hikes in the summer) or climbing to the next level.
Well, now we have two little kids, one and four. This ski season is ending, and although we did OK getting out there, I am now understanding the great monetary cost of getting kids cared for and taught. (My mom is no longer so willing to be the designated kid watcher, now that there are two-- a moody 4yo and an into-everything 1yo.) I am seeing that the logistics and the sheer volume of STUFF is so much greater. And I am wondering how long we're going to be able to keep this pace up if we don't move to a mountain town. And it's not even the 20 or 30 or 35 day pace of the *old days.* Getting what will probably turn out to be 16 or 17 days in this season has taken an almost Herculean effort on my part.
As for hiking, well, let's just say that carrying a wiggly, 35lb 4yo who wants to walk on his own every 20mins makes getting up CO-size peaks a WHOLE lot more challenging. And obviously I can't carry two of them, so no more hiking without DH on weekdays.
We don't climb anymore.
So what do I do to stay motivated? Slogging away at the elliptical trainer in the basement and messing with our small weight rack is getting old. Plus, it's not challenging, and certainly isn't helping to melt away the last 5lbs of baby. Also, the 4yo won't stay in his room at *rest time* anymore, and spends most of my workouts saying, "Mommy, where's my truck?" "MOMMY!! I hurt my toe!" "Mommy, I am tired, can I have my snack?" Etc. :mad:
The gym that we belong to is about 20min away, and although I get blessed quiet on the workout circuit, it's sometimes a huge hassle and more motivation than I can muster to get two kids and coats and diaper bag and cups into the car and out the door in time to slip into the *slow* window at childcare. Plus, the 1yo isn't so sure how he feels about the place, so I could drive all the way there to be faced with big alligator tears. :(
Pushing the giant double stroller around the neighborhood? Meh. Our neighborhood is flat. Hardly an epic workout. I like working out hard. . . and have to, if I want to bring my fitness back up to par.
Pushing the giant stroller in the hills. . . sounds good, a couple days a week. . . except then I have to hope for no wind and bundle everyone up and drive 20min to Boulder.
I don't know. I have to find something to get me excited again. Any ideas? Any good tips for being fit and still being a good mommy? Help! The current situation is kind of bumming me out!
:(