+1
Just last year I took a lesson in Aspen where something was said that really resonated with me: "Roll your ankle into a new turn rather than trying to force the turn around every time.." *ding ding ding.. light bulb over my head* Are you kidding me?? I'd been skiing for 7 years and had taken a few lessons here and there and even 1 clinic, and had not ever had anyone tell me I'm supposed to do this, sure I must have been doing it to some extent to be skiing, but boy did this open my eyes. As a matter of fact I felt incredibly stupid for being so ignorant to this fact since it seems so fundamental to skiing in general! I was always so focused on either my toes (before my boots fit correctly and it was pain or slop) or my shins/knees, never my ankles. This made such a huge difference for me in how I interpret my movements and skiing as this stuff just doesn't come naturally to me like it does to say my DH who can pick things up really quickly and work out a lot of things for himself in his head.
I had a similar breakthrough mountain biking. I finally had someone make me put a lot more weight onto my front tire while cornering, especially on steep switchbacks. To me, this was completely counter-intuitive and kind of terrifying (and was to every person in the lesson group, not just me). We'd all had "If it's steep, get your weight back so you don't go over the bars!" drilled into our consciousness after our first endo. But obviously, this weighting the front tire thing gives you better traction and makes it easier to to faster with more stability and totally revolutionizes your riding. I was so excited to share it with my husband and he said: "You needed someone to tell you that? It's basic PHYSICS".
Well, whatever.
It's kind of like when you're trying to help someone who is on a ski traverse and is leaning too far into the hill for security and it's making them less secure because their weight isn't over the ski edge to give it more grip. Yeah, yeah, there's some "BASIC PHYSICS" going on there, but it's pretty unlikely that's what's going through the average person's head when they are afraid of falling off the edge of an exposed traverse - most people want to grab on to/lean into the wall of snow uphill because it gives the illusion of safety. If you've had the concept explained and practiced it in a safe situation, you can remember it when you need it.
But if you're just out trying to follow other people, some of the things they are doing aren't obvious/visible or just don't seem important. How would you see what someone's foot/ankle is doing in a ski boot? Or grasp what percentage of their body weight they are trying to use fore and aft? If you're an instructor and know to look for the subtle cues, and then you can hopefully see what they are doing, but I just think very few people have the ability to notice stuff like that on their own.