I would file that under the "there's a long wait for table"? Because if there isn't a shortage of tables, I'd enjoy having the extra space.How about, by myself and don't want to take up a 4 person table??
I like to eat at the bar if I'm on my own, it feels more casual. I feel less out of place. And I'm always open for conversation.
How about, by myself and don't want to take up a 4 person table??
It's funny to read people's interpretations of something so innocent.
I think Christy's point about generational culture gaps is a good one. We're really not all that distant from a time when it was absolutely not done for a "respectable" woman to sit at a bar alone. Maybe there's just some residual weirdness about it.
What generation was that? Just curious. Surely Gen Xers don't have those ideals right? Or what time frame would it be seen as weird? 80s? 90s? I've never really thought about it from that perspective...
That is a bartender who is good at her job. I turned a dead empty Friday night in th golf course bar into a jamming swing club's favorite spot just by remembering a couple of drinks! That club payed for my graduate work!Honestly, the bartender recently called my drink the other day before I'd sat down and I was stunned that she even remembered that I'd ever been there.
I'm 58 and I have sat at bars by myself my entire life. It has always been ok as far as I can tell - especially if eating. DH and I sit at the bar pretty often because we enjoy the conversation with others. We're not trying to pick anyone up. Just chatting.I think Christy's point about generational culture gaps is a good one. We're really not all that distant from a time when it was absolutely not done for a "respectable" woman to sit at a bar alone. Maybe there's just some residual weirdness about it.