While we're at the "love" subject, this is a bit of my problem...
Who here managed to keep long time male skiing buddy, without the guys trying to do "more than share the slope"?
Quite often, if I ski with one guy (out of a group) for more than a day, perhaps because we're compatible in our speed or run preference, the guy would start to hint here and there that we do "more" after skiing. You know what I mean, dinner, a drink after, then anther drink, and then the hands starts to get close...
After brushing one off a few times, he tend to disappear and doesn't even want to ski together any more.
It doesn't help that I'm currently unattached and want to stay that way, at least for a while. So I don't have a boy friend to fend them off.
It's kind of annoying. I'd like to have buddies to ski with, whatever their gender, as long as we're somewhat compatible. But it doesn't seem to work with guys. And it also doesn't matter if the guy is my dad's age, or young enough to be my son!
Who here managed to keep long time male skiing buddy, without the guys trying to do "more than share the slope"?
Quite often, if I ski with one guy (out of a group) for more than a day, perhaps because we're compatible in our speed or run preference, the guy would start to hint here and there that we do "more" after skiing. You know what I mean, dinner, a drink after, then anther drink, and then the hands starts to get close...
After brushing one off a few times, he tend to disappear and doesn't even want to ski together any more.
It doesn't help that I'm currently unattached and want to stay that way, at least for a while. So I don't have a boy friend to fend them off.
It's kind of annoying. I'd like to have buddies to ski with, whatever their gender, as long as we're somewhat compatible. But it doesn't seem to work with guys. And it also doesn't matter if the guy is my dad's age, or young enough to be my son!