Little Lightning
Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Moms, I need some advice. My partner's family is in Colorado this week. Mom skis, dad and 2 children, boy 9 and girl 11, all snow board. Dad encourages his boy to board black runs and bowls. Daughter isn't as aggressive, has problems turning and sits down when she goes too fast, can barely handle blues. Dad leaves her with mom who has never snowboarded and can't really help her. Neither kid can handle the long runouts, they can't get enough speed so they have to sit down, unbuckle a boot and push the board. This takes forever.
Yesterday mom fell and tore her ACL. Today they are at Steamboat and tomorrow they are coming to Copper. We are planning on meeting them there. I'm not sure about this but I'm thinking the guys will go off and leave me with Sammy. While I get plenty of skiing in and I don't mind I'm wondering if this is fair to her. Dad spends lots of time with his boy helping him but he pretty much ignores her. I can't give her any advice on the board since I've never boarded and I believe the situation will be frustrating for her. At least mom was trying to learn about boarding and help her.
Hopefully, they'll put her in a lesson but it's her last day so I'm not sure they'll be willing to spend the money.
Our other alternative is to see if our friends will take her, it will be their first day, they have 2 girls her age but they all ski. I also don't think it's fair to them to have to wait while Sammy has to push across the runs.
I'm hoping dad will do the right thing and keep her with him and help her but I'm not counting on it. So in the event he tries to send her off with me, what do you think I should do?
Yesterday mom fell and tore her ACL. Today they are at Steamboat and tomorrow they are coming to Copper. We are planning on meeting them there. I'm not sure about this but I'm thinking the guys will go off and leave me with Sammy. While I get plenty of skiing in and I don't mind I'm wondering if this is fair to her. Dad spends lots of time with his boy helping him but he pretty much ignores her. I can't give her any advice on the board since I've never boarded and I believe the situation will be frustrating for her. At least mom was trying to learn about boarding and help her.
Hopefully, they'll put her in a lesson but it's her last day so I'm not sure they'll be willing to spend the money.
Our other alternative is to see if our friends will take her, it will be their first day, they have 2 girls her age but they all ski. I also don't think it's fair to them to have to wait while Sammy has to push across the runs.
I'm hoping dad will do the right thing and keep her with him and help her but I'm not counting on it. So in the event he tries to send her off with me, what do you think I should do?