I ordered four pairs because XL in a lot of brands won't fit, so I hoped at least one would work out.
The winner - at least, the pair that definitely is not being returned - is the Black Diamond Dawn Patrol.
https://www.backcountry.com/black-diamond-dawn-patrol-pant-womens
Well, mine are purple. And were $50 cheaper. Maybe I snagged the last purple pair.
Anyway, the thighs are pretty tight fitting on me, so I wasn't so sure, but because they're stretchy, I can move *so* easily in them. It feels like I'm wearing nothing over my tights. It's shocking how free I feel! I gather from the reviews that other people think they're supposed to fit loose, but whatcha gonna do? And after wearing them for a couple of hours today on the snow, they seemed to fit more loosely, anyway.
I wanted something to wear when I'm sweating - super warm days or uphill days. These are lovely. The gaiters and bottom of the pant legs are very tight, but I can *just* slip the gaiters over my ski boots. This, of course, is a pros/cons thing - because I've never had a good solution for snowshoeing and hiking in the snow. My Sentinels are great for skiing, but they're bulky and noisy and hang too long. And not having any sort of wind protection isn't great, either. So I'm thinking I would use these for more than just skiing. Score.
They have short zips at the side of the pant for fiddling with buckles without having to work the gaiters up the boot. Not sure how I feel about these. I can see how it's nice since the gaiters are so dang tight! There are side vents, but they are shorter than I would have liked. Mesh backed, though, which is nice. The two front of thigh pockets are kind of a very tight cargo pocket - they have a bit of a built-in shelf at the bottom rather than being completely tight against the leg - but the material is so stretchy that it's easy to stuff things in there. Of course it would look pretty silly if I stuffed like an orange in there, but I think I could manage a clementine if I were determined ... okay, so, they're nothing like the Sentinel pockets, where you could probably sneak a hippo, but impressive given the limitations.
Two of the pairs were Norrøna - those will definitely be returned. Too tight. I can get them buttoned, but they're like sausage casings. No.
This leaves the last pair. Logically, I'm pretty sure I have to return them. I've already worn the Black Diamonds - they're not going back. The last pair, the Mountain Equipment Spectre, are a smidge tighter at the waist - as in, just a tiny bit too tight. They're also the most expensive of the bunch. And they're black - BORING.
But they have more of a ski pant feel to them - I think they'll block wind better. The leg cuffs are a little bigger. And there's the voice saying, "Well, if you just lose a little weight, they'll actually fit well." Which of course is such a dangerous knife edge to walk.
https://www.backcountry.com/mountain-equipment-spectre-softshell-pant-womens
Soooo. Decisions, decisions.