My home "mountain" is a little resort in the Mid-Atlantic called Massanutten. @marzNC is also a regular. Parking at the ski area is free and there are five parking levels. The furthest parking space is probably a 300 meter walk, max, from slope access (I tend to measure in my head using an Olympic size swimming pool for reference, i.e., 50 meters). Yet, folks will insist on pulling right up to the access entrance ("official vehicles only") to undress, dress, boot-up, and drop-off their kids. They will also monopolize the 15 minute parking spaces in front of the general store to do the same (which inevitably takes more like 30-40 minutes). They will never enter the store. I've even seen them trying to do a drop-off in the ambulance access area ("Well, there's no ambulance here.").
There are times when there is a staff member in the parking lot that has the 15-min parking and the Drop-Off Zone. But they tend to be a bit on the timid side when it comes to getting the "guests" to do the right thing.I can totally understand why you wish you resort would step up to the plate and manage what sounds like a fairly manageable situation if you don't discount the level of disrespect that seems to be the norm these days
Note that on holiday weekends, perhaps at least 50% of the people are on a "once a winter" ski trip. They drive 2-4 hours from large urban areas and stay overnight in resort lodging. Most of the skiers/boarders are intermediates at best. Midweek is a completely different situation.
Even more of a mess when snow has blown over from snowguns, or a rare natural snow storm, has obscured the lines marking the diagonal parking. Especially in Lot 1, which is the shortest walk to the base lodge and the ticket windows and gear rental building.