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Ski Fanatic Mom

Certified Ski Diva
....Today, Sept. 1st, we were faced with making that decision that all
pet lovers hope they never have to make. Actually, yesterday should
have been that day, but selfishly, we weren't ready to let go of our
gentle giant, our regal boy, our loving, loyal and faithful companion
and family member.
It became apparent on Friday night that Hunter's hip was not
doing very well. Saturday morning we called the vet for some Rimadyl
and said "no" to his request to examine Hunter. We made Hunter very
comfortable on Saturday, pampered and spoiled him and stayed with him
all day. Even though he needed help to walk, I was shocked to find
him in my bedroom sound asleep on Sunday morning. But that was my
boy! He was loyal and loving and did everything he could to make it
up those stairs. Sunday's routine echoed of Saturdays, but it was
clear he was getting worse. Again, much to my amazement, there he
was, in my room again this morning.
We had a quiet time in the morning. I fed him his breakfast "in
bed" (God! He lived for food!!!!) but when he got up to walk, he
couldn't even use his front legs anymore. He never complained of
pain, was ready to "get in the game" so to speak, but we knew, we
couldn't let him suffer.
Rick stayed by his side while we released him to cross that
Rainbow Bridge, where I knew my dad and Quincy were waiting. I know
because I dreamed of my dad last night, and this morning, while
waiting for Rick to return, I saw a mourning dove sitting on my front
lawn, staring at me as I looked out the window. As I watched it, and
it watched me, just sitting there, I called Brooke over to look at it.
She began crying and told me Hunter laid in that exact spot this
morning when Rick took him out of the house.
So, although I know that my boy is running in heaven, with my
dad, free of pain, my heart is breaking! He was THE ONE - the best
dog I ever had (OMG, the mourning dove is back)., He loved kids,
always kissing them, he loved his rides in the car, he loved his boys
(Casey and Scott) and he loved his girl (Brooke). He loved his
family, and when put to the test, he loved us more than food, and that
is saying a lot cuz, boy, that dog loved food!
I know we did the right thing, but God, it hurt so badly.
Amazingly, I got the signs that I asked for. For that I am thankful.
For the 11 years that Hunter made this family complete, I am thankful.
For friends like all of you, who know the heartache we are going
through, I am thankful. For that mourning dove, still sitting
comfortably in my front yard, as I type this, I am thankful.

Fondly, Bernadette :Cry:
PS That mourning dove is STILL sitting there!
 

Robyn

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Oh, Bernadette, my heart breaks for you. I'm so glad you know the story of the Rainbow Bridge as it always brings me comfort when I start to miss my long gone much loved pets. So far I've sent Cisco, Zack, Anasazi, and Murfey over to wait for me there and I know I'll send many more before I go. I always imagine how immensely happy I'll be to see each of them again and I know Hunter is there waiting for you and one day you'll enjoy those kisses once again. Hugs to you as you go through this difficult time.
 

Ski Fanatic Mom

Certified Ski Diva
Hunter!

Thank you, Robin. We are fortunate to have our 15 month old German Shepherd girl, Heike (pronounced Hi-kuh), who learned learned many wonderful traits from Hunter.

She showed so many human-like qualities these last few days. While we kept vigil around Hunter, she would nudge her nose in, and lay her paw across his. He would then kiss her and she would put her head down. I guess in a way, our boy will live on through the wonderful things he taught her. He made those puppy days very easy on us.

Hunter and Heike are GSD's # 6 and 7. We've been through this too many times. What made Hunter so special, is he grew up with the kids (sadly they are all grown too) and truly, was a "Rin-Tin-Tin" type of GSD with so many human-like qualities.

Thank you for understanding my heart-wrenching sadness today. Your reply meant a lot to me.

Bernadette
 

ski diva

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear about the loss of your pet. I know how difficult it must be for you, and how profoundly you must feel the loss. It sounds like you did all you could to make it as painless and as easy for him as possible. You have my sympathy.
 

Ski Fanatic Mom

Certified Ski Diva
Thank you!

Thank you so much for your sympathy and support. I believe in my heart, that my Hunter stayed with me, to see me through my broken leg. He remained by my side the entire 3 months I was laid up. It's when I became more mobile, that he seemed to slow down. I think his final gift to me, was being there for me....

....I am grateful for having him in my life. He will be "forever in my heart".
 

SkiNurse

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Oh Bernadette,

I'm so very sad for you and your family. Benson is truly my best friend and I can't imagine what will happen when that day comes. You treated Hunter with respect and he knows how much he was loved. These are lessons people should learn with all loved ones....whether they walk with two legs or four legs!

You and your family are in my thoughts!
 

MaineSkiLady

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
So very sorry to hear this, Bernadette....and feeling your pain, as I went through the same a little over a year ago. A difficult life passage, and a huge loss.
Thinking of you.....
 

ski now work later

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Angel Diva
Bernadette, my sympathies.

It's been over 8+ years since my ex-husband and I put our beloved Maya down at 9 1/2 years old due to bum hips and an inability to walk even with meds, acupuncture, and chiro. Her last weekend with us was mother's day weekend when my crab apple tree blooms each year and I think of her every year when I see those white flowers and I still miss her like crazy.

I don't know if I'll ever own another dog again (she was my first). I'm glad that you have Heike to keep that circle of doggy love coming.
 

Severine

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Losing a pet is like losing a best friend. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time.
 

Kiragirl

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Dear Ski Fanatic,
My beautiful Siberian Husky "passed" 2 years ago; I still miss her everyday but now I can think about her without getting so upset, and am thankful for everyday I had with her. Remember the good times, the funny stuff, the facial expressions, and the adventures!
Kiragirl
 

playoutside

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
So sorry for your loss and pain. Some won't understand your love for Hunter, but many others will. I lost my 20 yr old cat, 2 years ago and I sit here at my desk crying for you and Hunter and me and my kitty. Time with them is much too short, but I'm sure you wouldn't trade a second of that time even to be free of the pain you feel right now. Fortunately, like with most things time will help and the memories will always be with you. You are in my thoughts.
 

num

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
I'm very sorry for your loss. The loss of a pet is so terrible. It will hurt, but be sure to remember the years you shared.

Our dog Ganja is turning 11 in a few weeks. When she tore her ACL last year, while unrelated to aging, seeing her mobility decreased and needing to take her through surgery and all brought the thought of her aging from the backs of our minds to the front. I know my heart will break when the day comes.
 

Consuela

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug: Losing such a dear pet that is part of your family is very painful.
 

dloveski

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Condolences on a tough transition. It's a miracle how these furry creatures become so much a part of the family (my then little son used to call him 'my brother from another mother'.)

It's been almost five years. It's good you have another dog to fill the void. It took me four years to get over the loss and finally bring another beast into my life.
 

Swamp Dog

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
oh Bernadette.....that is heart breaking. Until July of last year I could not have related to what you wrote, but I now know that what you've just gone thru is one of the hardest to endure. I never knew my heart could be so heavy until we lost George last year. The physical pain was almost unbearable.

Do you have any pictures of Hunter that you can post for us?
 

Ski Fanatic Mom

Certified Ski Diva
Ski Divas! Thank you...from the bottomof my heart...

...your kind expressions of sympathy over the loss of my beloved German Shepherd, Hunter, are heart-felt. Thank you, Divas.

For all of you who have loved and lost pets, I am also sorry for the pain you've endured as well. I know that time heals a broken heart. So does knowing that people care.

I would love to attach a picture of my beautiful boy, but don't know how. Help?

Thanks again!

Bernadette
 

MaineSkiLady

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
I would love to attach a picture of my beautiful boy, but don't know how. Help?
B, head over to site feedback and help --- one of the sticky-posts is Posting Photos 101, good instructions offered by SnowHot. Photo has to be first uploaded to a photo site like photobucket, etc. Easy enough to copy properties once you get the hang of it. Would love to see pic. We also had a thread going awhile back in "misc" - "Diva Dogs!" Might be nice to revive/bump that thread!
 

volklgirl

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
I knew I shouldn't have opened this at work. I'm balling like a little baby.

So sorry very for your loss.....

My time for this is coming up very soon. I can't imagine I'll be able to handle it with the amazing grace you've shown.
 

Ski Fanatic Mom

Certified Ski Diva
Hunter's Picture!

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If I did this correctly, the above link will take you to a picture of my beloved boy, Hunter.

It was taken a few years ago, during an early spring snowstorm. I took this through an opened door, calling him to come inside. Instead, he sat there obstinately staring at me, but not budging! He sat there, letting the snow accumulate on his body! He came inside, when HE was ready! My boy!
Bernadette
 

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