So, Sheena, I'm probably in your boots!
When I feel like challenging myself to a run that "scares" me, I enlist my poor husband. I find it helps to have someone lead the way. This doesn't mean I tackle the whole slope! What it means is that I get to see where he chooses to go and I cuss a lot on the way down. I talk to myself a LOT!
Once in a while, I try them out on my own, but usually I've been on them with him before...
Sometimes I'm doing really well to link 2-3 turns! I do that thing that Gloria wrote about, no matter how much I tell myself not to. I have this feeling that the "real" skiers can't stand when I'm on "their" runs, that I'm in their way, y'know? So I try to stick to the "edges" of the run, which maybe is the hard part? I don't know -- maybe someone can tell us? I keep telling myself "ski like you know how," and I break up the run into several little pieces. I try to be sure I'm stopping facing the run -- rather than the "walls," when I pause to regroup. Sometimes this means a short, single turn after I stop, y'know?
Poor DH is remarkably patient with me. Last time I dragged him -- no wait, that time HE dragged me! -- he said I was doing really well, better than he was. It didn't feel that way to me as I watched him and cautiously picked my way down!
Eventually, I get to a point on the slope where it gets easier, or for some reason, suddenly I can ski the whole rest of the run. When I get to the bottom, no matter how challenging it was, for some odd reason, I almost always feel like "let's do it again!" So far, the scariest ones I challenge myself to are never easy, they're always nail biters, but if I DO make that run again, they're always easier the second time! Maybe, a couple of times, instead of 2-3 turns, I'll link 3-4 turns, and I consider that a success!
Oh, wait -- no, that's not right. I've got runs that USED to be nailbiters that are favorites of a sort now. Maybe by the end of the season, with enough attempts, I'll ski them in just a couple of pieces -- what was a really scary run a couple of years ago isn't so much anymore, and someday my current demons will shrink too!
I figure, like powder runs, which also challenge me, if I keep at it, eventually I'll be able to ski on steeps. You will too!
(Then there's that other thing that's niggling in the back of my mind after getting that speed limit thread going the other day: maybe it's my skis that make it hard to ski the steeps? Maybe they're "blue" skis instead of "black" skis?)
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