Christy
Angel Diva
Oof, having to wait for surgery sounds very frustrating.
Are there any shorter getaways or proper vacations that you can take before you are 100%? To have something to look forward to and to keep your spirits up. Friends you've been meaning to visit, for example. Or maybe you like the beach but it's not as important as skiing, so you don't typically go. Obviously you'll need some mobility, but not as much as skiing. A car-based foodie weekend in LA or a long weekend of seeing shows in NYC or baseball spring training in AZ (these are ransom, obviously you'd need to think of your own equivalent that doesn't rely on a lot of physical effort).
When I've been injured I've tried to take advantage of the free time to do the things I always mean to do, but don't make time for. Learning or improving on a language; visiting cultural institutions where I live. That sort of thing. I've long been a volunteer with animals and have volunteered to do admin type stuff while I recovered. If you don't already volunteer somewhere, that can give a sense of purpose, and there is always some org that needs admin type stuff done.
Are there any shorter getaways or proper vacations that you can take before you are 100%? To have something to look forward to and to keep your spirits up. Friends you've been meaning to visit, for example. Or maybe you like the beach but it's not as important as skiing, so you don't typically go. Obviously you'll need some mobility, but not as much as skiing. A car-based foodie weekend in LA or a long weekend of seeing shows in NYC or baseball spring training in AZ (these are ransom, obviously you'd need to think of your own equivalent that doesn't rely on a lot of physical effort).
When I've been injured I've tried to take advantage of the free time to do the things I always mean to do, but don't make time for. Learning or improving on a language; visiting cultural institutions where I live. That sort of thing. I've long been a volunteer with animals and have volunteered to do admin type stuff while I recovered. If you don't already volunteer somewhere, that can give a sense of purpose, and there is always some org that needs admin type stuff done.