I travel solo for my ski trips because I have very few ski friends. My closest ski friend, Eunice, she prefers going to places that are within driving distance, that means, PA or WV. The farthest we went together by car was Mont Tremblant in Canada. For me, ski hills in east coast no longer satisfy me. I want to venture out to the west, I want to experience bigger mountains and taste the powder runs. I know I would wait for long time before I can convince Eunice to go on a west coast trip with me. Life is short, I finally gather my courage and ventured out west the 1st time 2 years ago.
Whenever I tell folks that I am on a solo ski trip, many people think I am brave… but I don’t consider myself brave... brave for what?
When I was checking out ski trips out west that time, I did look into joining a local ski club. But being an introvert, I need my “alone” time, I was not sure if I can handle interacting w/ strangers 24/7 for a wk long trip (it could be a mentally draining experience all by itself).
Being new to the sport (few years ago), I was not sure where and how to start planning for a ski trip. It was website like this (and Epic ski) that helped me to learn and gather information on ski travels; specially, destination selection, logistics such as ski shuttle, lodging location.
I am not a strong skier, intermediate at best, and I am bad with directions. One valuable tip I learn from my solo trips is, guided mountain tour is the best way to learn about the layout of a mountain, mountains hosts are locals and they usually have the 1st hand knowledge on, short cuts, trail conditions, when to avoid certain trails,….
Apart from ski trips, >90% of my trips are solo travels . Throughout the years of traveling alone, my 3 do's and don't as a solo traveler:
1. I avoid taking taxi if traveling in a foreign place, especially at night time.
My reason: In 1980’s in Hong Kong, there was this taxi drive who was mentally ill, he always targeted single women whenever he worked graveyard shift. He would drive them to the woods and then killed them. After, he would bring the bodies home, dissected them and stored the body parts in metal storage containers at his home . I think he killed a handful women. From that time onward, I always feel paranoid taking taxi when I am traveling solo, especially in a foreign land. Because I am bad with directions, who knows if the taxi driver is actually taking me to my destination? With that said, I had to do it few times. One time I was traveling alone to Zanzibar, Tanzania, my flight arrived around 11 pm at night. The airport parking lot was pitch black, there was no such thing as airport shuttle, metro rail, or hotel shuttle in Zanzibar aiport, so I had to rely on taxi to take me to a hotel in Stone Town. I did feel a bit vulnerable and during the taxi ride, I was praying: i) he was not crazy and, ii) he would take me to where I needed to go.
2. Better to be safe than to be sorry.
I stick to this principle when I travel solo on ski trips. I had to admit, there were times I held back a lot on my skiing. I’d less likely to venture onto more advanced terrains, I usually stick to trails I’ve been to.
My reason: Oct 2001, I travelled solo from the U.S. to meet up with my brother and father (they traveled from Hong Kong) for a trip in France. 2nd week into the trip, I twisted my R ankle, it got very swollen and I could not walk with my R foot at all. But I did not go to the ED because we did not speak enough French. My brother went to a local pharmacy brought a pair of crutches for me. When I travelled back to the U.S., airport security was tight (it was 1 month after 911 and U.S. just started bombing in Afghanistan a week prior). I remembered I had to put my crutches on a conveyor belt for security to scan, then I had to hop with my left foot to go through the metal detector. Went to bathroom at airport was another challenge: I hesitated to ask someone to watch my carry-on because, everyone was on edge from the 911 attack a month prior, they might think I was a terrorist (?). But then I did not want to leave my carry on unattended, airport security might think it contained dangerous object and confiscated it….. I guess after this experience, I became overly cautious when I travel alone, especially ski trips. The last thing I would want is, got injured on a trip and I need to figure out how to get home….
If traveling to a place with security issues, I make sure I return to my hotel before dark. In 2007, when I traveled to Cape Town, news at that time was Chinese tourists were kidnapping targets for ransom $$ (?), my mother was worried. During that trip, I made an effort to get back to my hotel before 7 pm. Nothing bad happened to me, I was not kidnapped and I came back in one piece.
3. Plan, plan and more plan. (point below maybe more relevant for beginner / low intermediates):
This is related to the safety topic I mentioned above. Few years ago, when I was still a beginner, I planned my first big ski trip to Killington (yes, K’ton was considered a big resort in my standard few yrs back). Before I booked the trip, I wanted to make sure I would not be overwhelmed with the green trails at K’ton. So, I tested the “water” by going to a small local resort, 7 Spring in PA first. I told myself, if I could handle greens at 7 Spring, I should then try a bigger place, Snowshoe in WV. If I could manage greens at Snowshoe, then it’d be safe to go to K’ton. I skied greens in 7 Spring and Snowshoe fine, I booked 3-day trip to K’ton. That was 2015…
All in all, I really cherish my solo trips because they gave me the fondest memories. I am always touched by strangers I meet along the way, how they go out their way to lend me a helping hand. I enjoy the freedom, I get to plan my own itineraries without making any comprises. I can decide when to go where and what to eat for the 3 meals.... So what's not to like?