My responses are in red below.
tinymoose said:
"That's the issue though... I understand I need to pull it back.... but when I pull it back it feels as if I'm hitting a wall of sorts, as in I can only pull it back so far physically, which is why I was wondering if something is still off with my hips that is causing this sensation. The feeling of hitting a "wall" is natural. It's supposed to be there. You're good. The tension you feel between the two feet, which will refuse to line up, has to do with the boots restricting your ankles. That tension is good. As in maybe I'm still too countered and that's making it more difficult to pull that ski back? It's good that you can pull that foot back without losing your counter; that means you are doing it right. Some people rotate their hips, pulling the hip above the foot back, both of them together. It sounds like you are NOT doing that - good! I can pull the ski back to the point he's somewhat pleased, but it doesn't feel better. If anything, it just feels very awkward and unnatural and I don't feel like I'm getting any extra edge grip b/c of it."
The extra edge grip on that inside ski's shovel is "extra credit." That's not the major reason it's good to pull the inside foot back. See below....
tinymoose also said:
"I don't think I have tip lead when I side slip? But I'll try to pay attention this weekend." If you don't have any tip lead when you are sideslipping, you probably are facing the side of the trail with your hips and shoulders. If you turn hips/shoulders to face somewhat downhill as you sideslip straight down the hill, you'll naturally get some tip lead. That's fine. Go ahead and learn to face somewhat downhill as you sideslip, with some tip lead. It's important to be able to do that.
The reason instructors try to get skiers to reduce tip lead is straight-forward. When you finish a turn, that old inside foot/uphill foot is going to become your new outside foot. If it's waay out in front of you at the end of the old turn, you'll start the next turn with your weight behind it, aft. Which is not good.