Same here. CalTrans has gotten a lot more conservative in the last few years and closing the road at times when I think it would have been open 6 years ago (hahaha, I say that like a cranky old-timer even though I've only lived here for 7 years.
) Related, I think there are more people going up, driving like lunatics, crashing, and closing the roads.
Also same. For the 2020-2021 season, I had a weekday pass at Sierra at Tahoe, which was super mellow except for one powder day. Last year and this year, I'm at another independent resort. The best part is pulling off the highway to go to the indy resort while everyone else is going to sit in traffic for the next hour and a half going 20 miles to the big name resort on a Saturday. I still try to get away on weekdays if I can, but being able to ski with friends on weekends is also really special.
It works some places in Tahoe, but I don't think it does until closer to 1. And then you have to deal with the heavy traffic leaving the resort at 4. This is probably for the big-name resorts, I was able to easily leave the ski area at ~4 last Saturday and get to my local destination.
What happened to me this past Saturday was that I left a friend's cabin near the indy resort, which is 10 miles closer to the Bay Area than the highway exit for the big name resort, at 5:30pm, and the traffic was surprisingly *heavy*. Better than a Sunday evening because it was moving 65-70mph, but definitely heavy. I suspect that the traffic I was mostly cars leaving one of the big name resorts. In the morning, I pulled into the parking lot of the indy resort at 8:50 and had rockstar parking. I had even stopped on my way to pick up breakfast and get gas (and because for reasons I can't explain, two of my cards were declined at the pump, I actually went inside the station to pay). I mean, those were time sucks.