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Gift from Hubby - Help me Decide

Shannon D

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
So, last night, DH gave my quite the conundrum. He has been trying to decide what to get me for our anniversary and finally decided to leave it up to me. I must say that my husband rocks and I am a very lucky woman. My choices are:

1. Patagonia Down Sweater
https://www.patagonia.com/web/us/product/product_focus.jsp?OPTION=PRODUCT_FOCUS_DISPLAY_HANDLER&catcode=SPECIAL.SC.MAIN.WOMENS.DOWN/SYNTHETIC&style_color=84681-782&ws=
(by the way, love that the review on this page is by SkiNurse) or

2. Private guide for our trip to Silverton

My struggle is that I already have Mountain Hardware Subzero down coat that I ski in on really cold days and I tend to be pretty warm on my top half most of the time. But the down sweater is so nice and could be worn all winter as a causual coat as well as a layering piece for skiing.

As for the private guide, this is a most unexpected option that has many pros. Last year, I was the slowest hiker in our group which meant that I never had time to catch my breath at the top. I got fatigued early and only took 3 runs. This would mean that we could go at my pace and we could tailor the day to ourselves. The major cons are that it's more expensive than option 1 and that it's a one time experience versus an item that will last me for years to come.

Help, what should I do???
 

Severine

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
I'm a big believer in experiencing life to the fullest. I would vote for #2. Yes, it's not a "thing" you can take away with you, but those memories will be priceless.

What a great hubs you have!
 

Robyn

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
As much as I want a down sweater I too would go for #2. The down sweaters will be available for future gifts. Once this trip is over you can't get it back.
 

sdskiqueen

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
I agree with the other Divas. You can always get another sweater and by next year when your next anniversary comes around you may see another sweater that's even more appealing than the one you're contemplating. Go for #2. Those memories will be something that never gets old, never rips or tears, or winds up being shoved in the back of the closet because you don't like it anymore. Memories, especially great ski memories, are priceless!!!!!
 

LilaBear

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Vote for #2.
You get to share it with your hubby too - nice way to celebrate an anniversary with more great memories of your times together.
 

SnowHot

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Angel Diva
#2!
 

Shannon D

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Thanks Ladies. You've confirmed my gut feeling and I'll think I'll do the private. Plus, I admitted to the hubby a few minutes ago that I was hoping that if I picked #2 I still might be able to talk my way into the down sweater. He agreed. He told me this weekend that lingere is fine for some guys, but ski gear is his turn on. What a cutie.

On a similar note, I'll post this into meet on the hill later, but we are planning the following dates. If any one wants to meet up, let me know.

Feb 12 - Wolf Creek
Feb 13 - Silverton
Feb 14 & 15 - Crested Butte
 

ski diva

Administrator
Staff member
Be sure to post after you do it and let us know how it goes! What a great gift. Your husband is A-OK with the Divas!
 

RachelV

Administrator
Staff member
Yeah, I can't wait to hear how this goes. Silverton has been on my list of places to try for a while.
 

oragejuice

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Hey, I can dream, can't I?
 

skimomma24

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
Yes, I'd go with #2 also, and my choice would have been to try and talk him into the sweater as well. ;) But if he's already in for it.... you are a lucky lady!! Enjoy your private tour, sweater AND your hubby!!
 

Lori_K

Ski Diva Extraordinaire
#2 for sure. Guided ski trips will be remembered forever!

On a similar note, I'll post this into meet on the hill later, but we are planning the following dates. If any one wants to meet up, let me know.

Feb 12 - Wolf Creek
Feb 13 - Silverton
Feb 14 & 15 - Crested Butte

We usually hit Wolf Creek a few times a season. Put up another reminder as the date gets closer, and we'll try to get there.
 

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