Stumbled upon this thread while looking for some advice for overcoming the anxiety of speed and steepness.
One of the biggest challenges I have as a low-intermediate is getting over how steep some runs are. My local mountain has green runs off the lift that feel so steep compared to other greens I have been on. I know every mountain is different, but how do you get over the fear of going down a steep run? What technique do you use?
I also have the issue of going too fast. When I get up to a certain speed I start getting scared and wanting to stop so I preform a hockey stop and calm myself down. My instructors have said to use the entire mountain, but I feel like I am going to get into someone's way. I also feel like I loose control when I go too fast. So how does one get over the fear of going fast?
Speed has always terrified me in many things, but for skiing, it was always a combination of the speed sensation, and a fear I would not be able to stop if needed. I've done a drill where I will purposely try to push my comfort zone with speed a bit, and then stop, sort of to prove to myself I can stop if needed. Then I repeat, gradually trying to get comfortable with the sensation of going faster.
Just curious how comfortable you are with you current ski kit? My first year, always with rental stuff, was a bit hard as every I day was getting accustomed to something new. The first skis I owned were a bit too long and advanced for me, which made me exceedingly cautious too. When I finally got a pair of skis that matched me, I actually went a bit faster as I had so much more confidence in my control.
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@marzNC mentioned, I sometimes am exceedingly cautious on the first run down a trail too, as what was a beautiful run a few days ago may be an absolute glacier today.
Steep things scared the bloody hell out of me for a while too, but I learned to not think about the whole run, and mentally break it into stages.
If you've not seen it, I highly recommend the book "A Conversation With Fear" by Mermer Blakeslee. I found it a bit dry to be right honest, but she does have a fab way of explaining things and her accounts of working with different students are full of little things you can try.
Above all, you do you! Never feel pressured or rushed to keep up with others or do things that seem beyond you. Keep working at things for sure, but work at a pace you are comfortable with. : )