The above two posts were originally in another thread, but I moved them here because I have a feeling this is going to generate a lot of discussion (for some reason, emoticons do).
Let me try to address this:
This is a bit off the topic. But with all the flashy icons, we really need some simple ones to give a hint of "tones": like, shouting, wink, shrug, etc. which we can quickly insert into the post to help get the emotions across.
I know we have emocations. But they're not easy to use. And I for one, don't like to use the "advance" screen... then, I can't access most of the emocations.
One of the limitations of written communication is that there are no facial or audio clues to go along the words. However, it's impossible to have emoticons for everything. Some things just can't be communicated with little tiny pictures; tone of voice and sarcasm, for example.
I think the best thing we can do is to try to frame our posts, as best as we can, to reflect what we have in mind. Keep in mind that people can't see or hear you, and that in many cases, they don't know your personality, either. So choose your words carefully. And if this involves saying, "I'm being sarcastic here," then so be it.
I don't mean to be harsh, but there are a TON of emoticons to choose from; more than most forums seem to have. Some people love them, some people hate them and have difficulty using them. Personally, I think they're fun. Whatever you think, we have them here as an option. If you want to use them, fine. If not, then don't.
I'm reluctant to add any more, unless there's one that's so amazing and so fantastic that I can't pass it up. I mean, the list could go on and on and on forever.
And since you can't hear the tone of my voice, here's a disclaimer: this is not being said in an aggravated or annoyed manner; I'm merely trying to explain and inform here.
So I'll get off my soapbox and wait for the bricks to fly:
BTW, for those of you who care to, you can always use emoticons you find elsewhere. SnowHot does this all the time. You merely import them in the same way you'd import a photo.