It's wonderful to hear your husband is safe and home!
I have a few thoughts for you...
If Good Times Adventure Tours are still around, they let you mush your own dogs and drive your own snowmobiles. Guides with that company are great!
For dining:
The Cellar serves gourmet "small plates" to taste and share with your dining companions. Wines are served by the bottle, glass or flight. If you've never eaten in a restaurant like this, it's really fun and you get to try all different kinds of food (if you've ever heard of a tapas restaurant, this is like that).
Rado is chef owned and is known for exceptional fresh seasonal cuisine.
If you like Northern Italian meals of homemade pastas and breads, try The St. Bernard Inn.
Clubs:
Sherpa and Yeti's has live music and dancing. Bands play blues, jazz, funk and reggae, plus there's and a local musicians' night, so you'll need to check their calendar.
Salt Creek is another hot club with live music and a huge dance floor. There's always a HUGE line to get in.
For a classy bar, you and your husband should go to The Dredge, which is a replica of the dredge boats that churned the Blue River for gold in the early 1900s.
Also The Crown has cozy couches that are perfect for intimate apres-ski or late-night drinks, desserts and coffee.
Hope that helps.
Thatsagirl