voile v6 is 96 width? I am kinda thinking to get 100
Sounds like you're really dialing in on what you want and have gotten lotsa great feedback! I laud you for being true to yourself.
So many ski reviews are written by pros to sell a dreams so getting advice from regular skiers is great, but all of us have our own sets of preferences, body types, strengths, and experiences.
I'm a solid-built human (5'5" 160) and both prefer and can drive a big ski. My daily ski is a 173cm Voilé Supercharger at 106 underfoot. I ski primarily off piste. Yet every time I go shorter or narrower because of of what someone else(s) think(s), I regret it.
I just wasted $750 on some Blizzard Black Pearls (98 underfoot) because, I guess in part, I want to be open to new things. So I over-ride my own judgment. I now force myself to ski them on groomer days because I think I should love them. It's kinda like an arranged marriage. They're fine for some, but often require a LOT of tolerance and adjustment.
An example of when I was true to myself: Spouse and I were on an all-day sidecountry combined catskiing trip on a glorious bottomless powder day. It was my first (of only 2 ever) catskiing trips. And I was the only woman in this group of 6 + 2 guides. One of the guys, a patroller, could not stop from repeatedly telling me I was "probably" on too big of a ski and explaining in different ways why they were too big.
For the record, I was on my Big Dogs - Voilé V8 (183 cm 143-114-124). Yeah, they're Big. So was the terrain.
Finally, I took him aside and asked if he thought I was holding up the group or causing concerns.
He answered, "No, no, not at all! You're doing great!"
"Well, then I guess I must've picked the right ski for today and while I appreciate your concern, it does appear misplaced."
He nodded, sheepishly smiled, and let it go. And I kept up all day.
So go bigger, go smaller, go with what brings you confidence and makes you smile. Above all, just GO!