The bottom line is that I can't ski anything but a groomed trail, which means I can't take advantage of the incredible resource in my backyard of mown-but-ungroomed trails. I can't ski with my friends here, and I can't enjoy the exercise of skinning up because I can't ski down. I'm sick of skiing crowded resorts; bored of sitting on chairlifts, and most of all, furious at how f-ing weak my ability is after all this time and all the work I put into it. I think I need a time out.
I think I understand your frustrations better now.
1) You live in a place where there are fabulous backcountry terrains, but you have to go to crowded resorts to ski. You have friends who can tackle those, but you can't go with them.
2) You find boring any time that you are not actually skiing (unlike me, who needs the chairlift time to rest and catch my breath).
I can understand that you just want to take a break, and that might not be a bad thing, so you can come back with a fresh perspective. I also understand the frustration of having all that great terrain nearby that you cannot access. On top of all this, your work schedule does not allow you to just take the time off to just go and ski; you can't just go on a non-crowded weekday, for instance. I have felt similar things... including your resolution to not focus so hard on improving... since that's just more work that takes away from the precious few hours of fun you get to have... except it's not so fun not to improve if you cannot have fun without improving... (See my little tantrum at
@volklgirl last season.)
I don't have a good solution for you, since this comes down to balancing out all of your priorities and needs, and only you know what's important to you. We can offer you tips, programs, encouragement, what worked for us, but not the values--those are just yours. I hope one of us does say that one thing that makes sense to you, be it something like the tips from
@Skier31 or the encouragements from
@2ski2moro, but none of these would work unless that is what you are already seeking.
So, having said that, here is a tip, at the risk of sounding like a stereotypical therapist: it's OK to feel discouraged. Maybe you need to feel discouraged today, and be frustrated, and be hard on yourself, and want to give it up. Maybe this whole week. Maybe this whole season Sometimes, we just need to feel it; only then can we work through and figure out if there is a solution at the end of the long, dark tunnel. It could mean deciding that skiing is an entirely foolish, wasteful endeavor (see the thread I started a few weeks ago; I mean, really, it is...); it could mean deciding that you want to find the time—make the time—to polish up your skills and become an expert skier, dammit, by next season. Regardless, for now, you have the right to fume and be furious.
I think we are all so far in agreement that your potential is obvious, and the speed at which you've progressed is the proof, and that your backcountry days are not far out of reach. Still, it is completely up to you if you want to bother.