I was enjoying these videos until I came to the end of the second one. The very last interchange is really bothering me. The woman states that she likes backcountry skiing because she doesn't have to worry about anyone sizing her up for the color of her jacket or what model of boot she's wearing or what she's skiing, that she can just have fun.
I know this is the reality, but why do we let it be acceptable to let what other people think of us bother us so much. I applaud her for backcountry skiing but she's saying she doesn't enjoy resort skiing as much because of other's opinions? She'd allow some random person that she doesn't know impact her enjoyment of the sport and send her off into the backcountry which has more hazards?
I'm not saying that I'm any better about this than anyone else but I want to be, I am aware, and I fight the urge to let it ever significantly affect me. Last year my first day of skiing was on Killington's WROD and it was awful. I had made some very, very bad boot modifications and didn't realize it and didn't realize how much a six month hiatus would affect my ability to ski.
I found myself going down turn by turn and had the mountain host lap me 2-3 x's, each time asking me if I needed help and trying to give me tips. A few people on the chair lift laughed at me. This was all super embarrassing (really) but I didn't let it stop me, I came back the next day with my boots fixed and then skied a third day which was amazing. Granted, I was really happy that I had a different color jacket but either way I wouldn't have compromised doing what was best because of someone else's opinion.
Even if we don't let it affect our choices or our behavior, just being upset seems problematic to me. It takes energy to be upset, if we focus on someone else's opinion, that's energy that's diverted from other things in our life which are way more important. If we get angry our BP goes up, our heart rate goes up, our adrenaline and stress responses are activated, which have all been shown to have a detrimental effect over the long term, so it isn't benign.
Am I over-reading or overthinking this? Is this actually not true? Or is this, as I suspect, an unintended side effect of the culture of political correctness?